I have had to live with love dreams and never an actual experience of love simply because of (a)the tradition-bound conservative community I was born into and(b) my college teacher job which ws socially sensitive.I was afraid to express my love for a girl at home since my parents thought that it was indecent for a boy of 25 to find his own girl.And there were reponsibilities of all kinds heaped on me so that I was bound hand and foot.I loved to marry a foreigner from OUTSIDE India,but this was unheard of by my parents and relatives.I was then interested in taking a girl from another caste---a girl that liked me too -- but this was also turned down.The only place I experienced real love for love's sake was poor Ethiopia where one lady doctor girl told me to give her a kid for remembrances'sake and No other obligation at all!!The girl that finally came into my life is so self-absorbed in thinking of money that she has no interest in lovemaking at all in spite of my persuasions.Self abuse has been my only safety valve most of these years.What should I do under these circumstances?....SADABOY (id:edelweiss97a@yahoo.in)
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I know this will sound out of Disney movie, but you're the one going to have to live with the girl you eventually marry. It would be nice to get parental approval and not go against everything you've been brought up with, but that may not work out for you. On the other hand, you may find a girl your family loves or maybe you're family will see the light.